Miss. B. Perfect-Affairs: Who should come?

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Miss. B. Perfect-Affairs,

My MOH is busy planning my bachlorette party and bridal shower. She is asking me to come up with a guest list so she can mail out the invitations. I am wondering though, who does get invited to those parties?



Dear Who-Should-Come,

Oh yes, the ever-so-confusing guest list. The bridesmaids and any other girls helping with your wedding day should be invited to both for sure. Other than that, it’s really up to you. If it’s a family shower- invite all the women on your side and his.  Close family friends should be invited as well. Only people who are invited to the wedding itself should be invited to the shower.

Anyone who likes to party can be invited to your bachlorette. Keep in mind though, depending on how crazy you might get- just your friends might be a good choice for this list. If you are having them on the same day, make sure she specifies on the invite that things might get a little crazy once the sun goes down. 


Miss. B. Perfect-Affairs

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